About Dr Julia Reeve

Hello, I´m Dr. Julia Reeve

I am a gynaecologist, psychotherapist, sexologist, and expert on vaginismus. I am also the author of the book Living With(out) Sex, also known as The Vaginismus Book.

I help woman suffering from Vaginismus

I support women navigating vaginismus. Many women find that structured guidance, education, and a supportive approach help them make significant progress. Over the years, I have seen countless women gain more confidence and overcome challenges they once thought were insurmountable.

For some, this means feeling more comfortable attending medical check-ups, gaining more freedom through the use of tampons or menstrual cups, or approaching intimacy with greater ease. Others explore pathways to parenthood in a way that feels right for them.

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Hello, I´m Dr. Julia Reeve

I am a gynaecologist, psychotherapist, sexologist, and expert on vaginismus. I am also the author of the book: "Living With(out) Sex" also called "The Vaginismus Book".

I help women to overcome vaginismus for good!

Today, I can say that the treatment of the vast majority of women/couples suffering from vaginismus is successful, and even after the very first therapy sessions, my patients already experience 'success stories'.

Whether it's being able to undergo preventative screenings, gaining more freedom through the use of tampons or menstrual cups, experiencing sexuality without pain and fear, or fulfilling a desire for children in a natural way.

How I Became an Expert on Vaginismus

I grew up bilingual, with a German mother and a British father, originally from England. At the age of 16, I moved to Germany, where I later studied human medicine at Cologne University and became a doctor. I went on to specialize in gynaecology and obstetrics.

Since 1999, I have been living in the Netherlands while continuing to work in Germany, crossing the border daily. I opened my gynaecological practice over 25 years ago (in 1994) and quickly realized that my patients needed more than the conventional medical training I had received. To provide them with the best possible support, I pursued further education in psychotherapy and sexology, deepening my expertise in treating conditions like vaginismus.

In the summer of 2024, I retired from my in-person medical practice but continue to support women online through coaching, education, and resources.

My Postgraduate Studies and Specializations:

Over the years, I have expanded my expertise through postgraduate studies in the following areas:

✔ Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy
✔ Psychosomatics
✔ Family Therapy
✔ Sexology
✔ Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) – Master’s degree from the Technical University of Munich

These additional qualifications have allowed me to take a holistic and multidisciplinary approach to supporting women with vaginismus and related concerns.

How I Developed My Approach to Vaginismus

Over the years, I have developed my own structured approach to supporting women with vaginismus.

This method has evolved thanks to my extensive studies and, most importantly, the valuable feedback from my patients. Through continuous refinement, I have shaped my approach into what it is today.

My real “aha moment” came when I underwent flight phobia training myself. I realized that a similar principle—gradual desensitization—can be highly effective in helping women navigate vaginismus. An essential part of my approach also includes the involvement of a partner, when available.

Since I never physically treat patients, online support works exceptionally well!

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